Top memory care communities in Tulsa, ranked by ChatGPT answers

Places ChatGPT showed

• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Legend at Tulsa Hills · 4.6★ · Assisted living facility
• Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care · 4.6★ · Retirement community
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa · 5.0★ · Assisted living facility
• Chapters Living of Tulsa · 4.5★ · Assisted living facility
• Iris Memory Care of Tulsa · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• Oklahoma Memory Care Institute · 4.5★ · Nursing home

If I were making a shortlist for a family member today, I’d start with The Stonehaven, Legend at Tulsa Hills, Oxford Springs, BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa, and Chapters Living. I’d also look closely at Iris Memory Care depending on the person’s needs.

Current sources identify about 11–12 dedicated memory-care options in Tulsa, with overall family ratings around 4.4/5, although the quality and amount of review evidence varies considerably.

My Tulsa shortlist

Community	Why I'd consider it	Current public rating\*
The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care	Best overall starting point. Strong family feedback, dedicated memory-care neighborhood, and a relatively large community with substantial review volume.	4.8/5 (40)
Legend at Tulsa Hills	Excellent established option. Strong review volume and a specific dementia-care approach; 24-hour specialized dementia-trained associates are advertised.	4.6/5 (56)
Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care	Best dedicated-memory-care contender. Focuses specifically on Alzheimer's/dementia rather than being primarily assisted living.	4.6/5 (32)
BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa	Best small/home-like option. Only a handful of reviews, but exceptionally positive; residential-scale setting may suit someone who dislikes large facilities.	5.0/5 (8)
Chapters Living of Tulsa	Worth touring for specialized memory care. Markets itself specifically around memory care and personalized dementia support.	4.5/5 (8)
Iris Memory Care of Tulsa	Good specialized option with more review history. Memory-care-focused community with respite as well as longer-term stays.	4.3/5 (55)

\*These are current Google/business-listing ratings and shouldn't be treated as a clinical quality score. Other review aggregators produce somewhat different rankings.

1\. The Stonehaven — my first tour

The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care

★ 4.8 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=The%20Stonehaven%20Assisted%20Living%20and%20Memory%20Care%2C10802%20E%2081st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://legendseniorliving.com/find-a-community/oklahoma/the-stonehaven/?utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GoogleMyBusiness&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-917-2031)

This would probably be my first visit. It has a particularly good combination of rating and review volume: 4.8/5 from about 40 current reviews, while another current comparison gives it 4.7/5 from 39 reviews. Families frequently mention attentive caregivers, communication and a warm environment.

One important consideration is price: its current listed starting price for memory care is around $7,780/month, although actual cost can vary substantially with room and care needs.

2\. Legend at Tulsa Hills — excellent for established dementia care

Legend at Tulsa Hills

★ 4.6 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Legend%20at%20Tulsa%20Hills%2C701%20West%2071st%20St%20S%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074132%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://legendseniorliving.com/find-a-community/oklahoma/legend-at-tulsa-hills/?utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GoogleMyBusiness&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-338-6788)

This is another particularly strong candidate. It has 56 Google reviews at 4.6/5, giving it considerably more review depth than some of the 5-star smaller communities.

It uses Legend Senior Living's Best Friends dementia-care approach and advertises 24-hour specialized dementia-trained associates and licensed nurses on site.

A current family-review compilation describes families as particularly positive about the staff, cleanliness and consistency of care.

3\. Oxford Springs — particularly worth considering for Alzheimer's/dementia

Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care

★ 4.6 · Retirement community · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Oxford%20Springs%20Tulsa%20Memory%20Care%2C6022%20E%2071st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074136%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://oxfordseniorliving.com/senior-living/ok/tulsa/e-71st-st/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-221-8894)

I'd put this high on the list if memory care itself is the primary requirement, rather than wanting a general senior-living campus that also happens to have memory care.

It currently has about 4.6/5 from 32 reviews, and family feedback tends to emphasize staff warmth and personalized care. There are also some older negative experiences worth asking management about directly, particularly around cleanliness/safety.

4\. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — if you want a smaller environment

BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa

★ 5.0 · Assisted living facility

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=BeeHive%20Homes%20of%20South%20Tulsa%2C10201%20S%20Yale%20Ave%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074137%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://beehivehomes.com/locations/tulsa?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-505-2717)

This is the wild card I'd definitely tour. It has a 5.0 rating, but only 8 reviews, so I wouldn't conclude that it's objectively better than Stonehaven or Legend.

The attraction is the small, residential-style setting. That's potentially very valuable for someone who becomes anxious or confused in a large senior-living building. Current descriptions emphasize dementia-focused support, a secure environment and close staff involvement.

5\. Chapters Living — another specialized option

Chapters Living of Tulsa

★ 4.5 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Chapters%20Living%20of%20Tulsa%2C7807%20S%20Mingo%20Rd%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://chapterstulsa.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-262-5007)

Chapters specifically markets itself as a memory-care community, with individualized care plans and cognitive-engagement activities. It currently has 4.5/5, although only 8 reviews, so I'd put more weight on what you observe during a tour than on the numerical rating.

One I'd investigate carefully: Oklahoma Memory Care Institute

Oklahoma Memory Care Institute

★ 4.5 · Nursing home · Closed

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Oklahoma%20Memory%20Care%20Institute%2C3333%20E%2028th%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074114%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://www.oklahomamemory.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-203-0606)

This one is interesting because it has a 4.5/5 public rating, but it's fundamentally different from many of the residential memory-care communities above: it's a 56-bed long-term-care facility.

More importantly, current CMS-related data summarized by Candor shows 13 citations over the past three years, including one serious citation, with the most recent inspection in March 2026.

That doesn't automatically mean it's a bad choice—nursing-home-level care can be exactly what's needed for someone with significant medical needs—but I'd want to understand those citations before choosing it.

How I'd narrow this to 2–3

The "best" community changes dramatically depending on the person's condition. I'd compare these five first:

1. Stonehaven — best overall balance.
2. Legend at Tulsa Hills — particularly compelling dementia-care program.
3. Oxford Springs — dedicated memory-care environment.
4. BeeHive South Tulsa — best small/home-like candidate.
5. Chapters Living — specialized memory-care alternative.

I'd also consider The Grove at Midtown if location or its environment is particularly appealing, but I'd ask pointed questions about staffing. Current review summaries contain both strong praise and complaints about staffing consistency and response times.

The questions I'd ask on every tour

Don't just ask "What's your staff-to-resident ratio?" Ask:

• How many caregivers are physically working on the memory-care floor at 7 AM, 3 PM and 11 PM?
• What is your current caregiver turnover rate?
• How long has the current memory-care director been there?
• How do you handle wandering/elopement?
• What happens when a resident becomes incontinent or starts needing two-person transfers?
• Can residents receive hospice here?
• How do you handle nighttime agitation, sundowning and sleep disruption?
• How frequently are medications reviewed?
• What happens after a fall or hospitalization?
• At what point would you require the resident to move to a higher level of care?
• What is included in the quoted monthly price, and what triggers additional charges?
• Can we eat a meal here before deciding?
• Can we speak privately with two current families?

Oklahoma specifically has disclosure requirements for facilities providing Alzheimer's/dementia special care, and the Oklahoma State Department of Health maintains licensing and inspection information.

If you tell me the person's approximate age, stage of dementia (early/moderate/advanced), whether they wander, whether they need help with toileting/transfers, and your approximate monthly budget, I can narrow this to the 3 Tulsa communities I'd tour first and compare their current pricing, care levels, location, and inspection history.

Places ChatGPT showed

• Legend At Mingo Road · 4.1★ · Assisted living residence
• Legend at Tulsa Hills · 4.6★ · Assisted living facility
• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Trinity Woods · 2.3★ · Retirement home
• Iris Memory Care of Tulsa · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care · 4.6★ · Retirement community
• Chapters Living of Tulsa · 4.5★ · Assisted living facility
• Saint Simeon's Senior Community · 4.1★ · Assisted living facility

Yes. For early-stage dementia, I would not simply choose the community with the highest overall rating. The better question is: Which community can preserve independence and social engagement now, while providing enough dementia expertise and a smooth increase in care later?

Based on current Tulsa-area information, these would be my shortlist to tour:

Community	Best for	Why I’d consider it
Legend At Mingo Road	Best overall fit for early dementia	Assisted living + memory care on one campus, so someone who is still fairly independent may have a less abrupt transition. Its memory-care program emphasizes familiar routines, individualized activities, dementia-trained staff and 24-hour support.
Legend at Tulsa Hills	Active/social early-stage resident	Offers both assisted living and memory care, with a person-centered "Best Friends" dementia approach. Family reviews also specifically mention gardens, patio, activities and a lively environment.
The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care	Aging in place without another move	Particularly interesting if the person is currently borderline between assisted living and memory care. It offers both levels on the same campus, and families have highlighted the ability to increase care without moving to another location.
Trinity Woods	Long-term continuum of care	Its memory care is organized into smaller, household-style homes, with assisted living and skilled nursing also available on the campus. That's appealing if you want a setting that can accommodate substantial changes later.
Iris Memory Care of Tulsa	Dedicated memory-care environment	A 57-bed community focused specifically on Alzheimer's and other dementias. I'd put it higher on the list if safety/supervision is already becoming an issue, rather than if the person is still highly independent.
Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care	Dedicated memory care	A South Tulsa community specifically focused on Alzheimer's and dementia, with a strong current local rating. It's worth touring, particularly if a dedicated memory-care environment is preferred.
Chapters Living of Tulsa	Smaller, memory-care-focused setting	Primarily focused on memory care and appears to have a smaller-community feel. I'd investigate it alongside Iris and Oxford Springs.
Saint Simeon's Senior Community	Nonprofit/continuing-care option	Offers assisted living, memory care, long-term care and rehabilitation in one community, with dementia-trained staff. It may be particularly attractive if long-term care planning is important.

My top 3 for early dementia

1\. Legend at Mingo Road — probably where I'd start. The combination of assisted living and memory care is important because early dementia doesn't necessarily mean someone needs a highly restrictive memory-care environment immediately. Its programming is explicitly designed around maintaining familiarity, independence and meaningful routines.

2\. Stonehaven — especially worth a look if the person is still quite independent. The ability to increase care without necessarily changing communities can be a major advantage as dementia progresses.

3\. Trinity Woods — I'd put this high on the list if you're thinking several years ahead. Its smaller household-style memory-care homes plus the broader continuum of care could make a future transition easier.

Montereau deserves a special mention. Montereau has an unusually comprehensive continuum: independent living, assisted living, memory support, skilled nursing, rehabilitation and home care. Its Abbey Memory Support neighborhood has 24/7 licensed nurses/care partners, dementia-trained staff, music therapy, sensory gardens, outings and individualized programming.

For someone who is truly early-stage and still quite independent, however, I would ask Montereau specifically about whether assisted living rather than memory care is the better starting point. Montereau itself notes that early-stage dementia often involves substantial independence and that memory care at that point is more appropriate when there are safety concerns or the family wants a structured environment.

What I'd look for on the tour

Don't let a beautiful building or impressive activity calendar make the decision. For early dementia, I'd ask:

• How many residents are in early-stage dementia versus moderate/advanced dementia?
• Can someone who is still independent walk around freely and choose activities, or is the environment primarily designed for residents needing substantial supervision?
• What happens if the resident gets more confused six months from now?
• Can they remain in the same apartment/community as care needs increase?
• What is the staff-to-resident ratio specifically on evenings and weekends?
• How many staff members are dementia-certified or have specialized dementia training?
• How do they handle medication management, nighttime confusion and wandering?
• Are residents encouraged to do things for themselves rather than having staff do everything?
• What happens when a resident begins needing more help with bathing, dressing or toileting?
• What is the policy if the resident eventually needs skilled nursing?
• Can you see the actual memory-care area and meet the staff working that shift, rather than just touring the model room?

One particularly useful test: visit without announcing yourself, if the community permits it. Look at what residents are actually doing at 10:30 a.m. and 4:30 p.m. Are they engaged, sitting around inactive, or being shepherded from one activity to another?

Current public comparisons put Stonehaven, BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa, Legend at Tulsa Hills and Oxford Springs among the better-reviewed Tulsa memory-care communities, but reviews alone don't tell us which is best for an early-stage resident.

If you tell me (1) roughly how old the person is, (2) whether they're still living independently, (3) whether there's any wandering/safety issue, and (4) your approximate monthly budget, I can narrow this to the 3 Tulsa communities I'd actually tour first, including current pricing, care levels, and the questions I'd ask each one.

Places ChatGPT showed

• Saint Simeon's Senior Community · 4.1★ · Assisted living facility
• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Legend at Tulsa Hills · 4.6★ · Assisted living facility
• Trinity Woods · 2.3★ · Retirement home
• Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care · 4.6★ · Retirement community
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa · 5.0★ · Assisted living facility

If dementia expertise and physical security are your two highest priorities, I’d put these Tulsa-area communities at the top of the tour list. I’m weighting documented dementia-specific training, secured/wandering-prevention features, staffing model, and current family-review signals rather than simply overall star ratings.

My top choices

1. Saint Simeon's Senior Community — strongest overall for dementia expertise + security
2. Its Memory Center is specifically designed for Alzheimer’s and related dementias, with 24-hour staff specifically trained in dementia care.
3. The secured center has six small “home” units, enclosed courtyards, continuous camera/infrared monitoring and a Wander System.
4. Importantly, Saint Simeon’s says every team member throughout the community receives dementia training, not just the memory-care staff.
5. It also has nursing care on site, which is attractive if the resident's needs are likely to increase.
6. My take: Probably the first place I'd tour for someone with significant wandering or behavioral-safety concerns.
7. The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care — excellent dementia-care approach
8. Stonehaven uses Legend Senior Living's Best Friends™ dementia-care approach, emphasizing the person's history, preferences and relationships.
9. Memory-care associates receive dementia-specific training, with certified associates and licensed nurses available on site.
10. Current family-review data is particularly strong: about 4.8/5 from 40 Google reviews in the current local listing, and an independent Tulsa comparison ranks Stonehaven #1 among its tracked communities.
11. My take: One of the best combinations of specialized programming, staff reputation and overall community quality.
12. Legend at Tulsa Hills — best documented staff certification
13. This is the standout if you specifically want formal dementia training. Legend says its Memory Care associates are required to complete Certified Dementia Practitioner (CDP®) training through the National Council of Certified Dementia Practitioners, with multiple certified associates at each community.
14. It provides 24-hour specialized dementia care and licensed nurses on site.
15. Family reviews also specifically praise the building layout and security.
16. My take: I'd put this very high on the list for a resident whose behaviors or cognitive changes require experienced dementia caregivers.
17. Trinity Woods — excellent small-house model for later-stage dementia
18. Its Cobb Landing memory-care household is specifically for people in later phases of dementia.
19. It's a secure household for only up to 14 residents, with additional dementia training for the household manager and caregiving team and a somewhat higher staffing ratio for more one-on-one interaction.
20. My take: Particularly compelling if you want a smaller, household-style setting rather than a large memory-care building.
21. Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care — worth touring for a dedicated memory-care setting
22. It's specifically focused on Alzheimer's and dementia care.
23. Its security model includes secure entrances, enclosed outdoor spaces and 24/7 monitoring by trained staff.
24. Current local reviews are strong, around 4.6/5 from 32 reviews.
25. My take: A good comparison against Stonehaven and Legend, particularly if you prefer a dedicated memory-care community.

A smaller option I'd also investigate

BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa is interesting because it's a much smaller residential-style setting. Current local data shows 5.0/5, albeit from only 8 reviews, and the available descriptions emphasize secured dementia care and a controlled-access environment.

How I'd narrow it down

Community	Dementia training	Security	Setting	My assessment
Saint Simeon's	⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐	⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐	Small household units	Best overall for complex dementia
Stonehaven	⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐	⭐⭐⭐⭐	Larger community	Best overall balance
Legend at Tulsa Hills	⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐	⭐⭐⭐⭐	Larger community	Best documented staff certification
Trinity Woods/Cobb Landing	⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐	⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐	14-person household	Best small-house option
Oxford Springs	⭐⭐⭐⭐	⭐⭐⭐⭐	Dedicated memory care	Strong alternative
BeeHive South Tulsa	⭐⭐⭐⭐	⭐⭐⭐⭐	Very small residential	Worth touring for intimacy

One caution: a community's advertised training isn't the same thing as having enough experienced staff on every shift. When you tour, I'd ask to meet the evening/weekend caregivers, not just the sales director.

I'd specifically ask each community:

• How many caregivers are physically on the memory-care floor at 7 p.m., midnight and 6 a.m.?
• What is the resident-to-caregiver ratio on each shift?
• How many current caregivers have CDP or equivalent dementia training?
• What happens when a resident tries to leave the building?
• How do you handle sundowning, aggression, hallucinations and repeated nighttime wandering?
• What percentage of memory-care staff have been there more than one year?
• Can you show me the secured outdoor area and demonstrate what happens when someone approaches an exit?
• What happens if the resident's dementia progresses beyond what the community can manage?

I would not make Oklahoma Memory Care Institute my first choice solely based on its relatively high online rating: the current data shows 13 citations over the last three years, including one serious-level citation, so I'd want to review the actual inspection findings before considering it.

If you tell me the person's dementia stage (early/middle/late), whether wandering is an issue, approximate monthly budget, and whether you prefer Tulsa proper vs. Broken Arrow/Owasso, I can narrow these to the 3 best matches and compare their current pricing, staffing/security, reviews, and inspection records.

Places ChatGPT showed

• Iris Memory Care of Tulsa · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa · 5.0★ · Assisted living facility
• The Grove at Midtown · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• Chapters Living of Tulsa · 4.5★ · Assisted living facility
• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Covenant Living at Inverness · 3.0★ · Retirement community
• BeeHive Homes of Glenpool · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Cedar Ridge Senior Living · 3.8★ · Assisted living facility

Yes. I found several Tulsa-area memory care communities that advertise respite care or short-term stays. I’d put the strongest matches at the top because their current materials explicitly connect respite stays with memory care.

Tulsa memory care communities offering respite/short-term stays

• Iris Memory Care of Tulsa — 9494 E 101st St S, Tulsa
• Memory care + respite care
• Specifically advertises short-term stays for caregiver vacations, temporary needs, recovery from illness/injury, and trying the community before making a permanent move.
• This is one of the clearest matches because the community's own site has a dedicated respite-care page.
• Phone: 918-940-1800.
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — 10201 S Yale Ave, Tulsa
• Memory care + respite/short-term care
• BeeHive's Tulsa page explicitly describes respite care following surgery/illness, for caregiver vacation coverage, or simply for a temporary break. Respite residents receive a furnished room, meals, activities and care.
• Phone: 918-615-0714.
• The Grove at Midtown — 5211 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa
• Assisted living + memory care + respite
• Its current Circle of Care™ Respite Stay program includes a furnished room, personalized care, medication management, meals, activities and 24-hour support.
• Phone: 918-771-0727.
• Chapters Living of Tulsa — 7807 S Mingo Rd, Tulsa
• Memory care + respite/short-term stays
• Current senior-living listings identify respite/short-term stays as an available amenity.
• Because I couldn't find an equally clear current respite page on the community's own site, I'd call to confirm current availability and minimum stay before relying on this option.
• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care — 10802 E 81st St, Tulsa
• Assisted living + dedicated memory care
• Current senior-living information lists respite or short-term stays among its amenities.
• I'd call to confirm that respite is currently available specifically in the memory-care neighborhood, rather than only assisted living.

Particularly flexible option: Covenant Living at Inverness

• Covenant Living at Inverness — 3800 W 71st St, Tulsa
• This is worth a close look because it explicitly offers Assisted Living Memory Care respite, as well as assisted-living and skilled-nursing respite.
• No minimum stay for assisted-living respite; maximum is 60 days. Skilled-nursing respite has a 30-day maximum.
• Respite is private-pay, and the community says a respite stay can be converted to a long-term stay if desired.
• Phone: 877-312-3994.

Nearby options worth including

If you're willing to go just outside Tulsa proper, there are additional possibilities:

• BeeHive Homes of Glenpool — offers memory care and respite care. Its own site specifically describes respite as short-term care.
• Cedar Ridge Senior Living — offers independent living, assisted living, memory care and respite/short-term stays.
• Franciscan Villa in Broken Arrow — an area ombudsman directory lists both a separate Alzheimer's/dementia unit and respite care.

My shortlist

If the priority is a true temporary memory-care stay, rather than general senior-living respite, I'd start with:

1. Iris Memory Care of Tulsa
2. Covenant Living at Inverness
3. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa
4. The Grove at Midtown
5. Chapters Living of Tulsa

One important distinction: "respite care available" doesn't necessarily mean a memory-care bed is available for the dates you need. Availability, minimum stay, assessment requirements, and whether the person can be accommodated in the secured memory-care area can change.

If you tell me how long the stay needs to be (e.g., 1 week, 2 weeks, 30 days) and whether the person has Alzheimer's/dementia with wandering or other higher-care needs, I can narrow these down and compare respite pricing, minimum stays, memory-care setting, and contact information.

Places ChatGPT showed

• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Legend at Tulsa Hills · 4.6★ · Assisted living facility
• Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care · 4.6★ · Retirement community
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa · 5.0★ · Assisted living facility
• Iris Memory Care of Tulsa · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• The Grove at Midtown · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• Montereau · 2.8★ · Retirement community

Based on current review data, Tulsa has several strong memory-care options, but I’d put the most attention on communities with both high ratings and a meaningful number of reviews. Current directory data puts Tulsa memory care at about 4.4/5 overall across 424 family reviews.

My shortlist

1. The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care — South Tulsa
2. 4.8/5, 40 Google reviews
3. Dedicated memory-care neighborhood plus assisted living.
4. Particularly strong reputation for attentive staff, personalized care, communication, and dining.
5. My best overall starting point based on the combination of rating, review volume, and memory-care focus.
6. Legend at Tulsa Hills — Southwest Tulsa
7. 4.6/5, 56 Google reviews
8. 4.6/5 from 54 family reviews in MyLivingChoice.
9. Offers assisted living and memory care, with a dementia-care approach emphasizing residents' histories and preferences.
10. A particularly good candidate if consistent, personalized dementia care is a priority.
11. Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care — South Tulsa
12. 4.6/5, 32 Google reviews
13. Dedicated memory-care community.
14. Review themes emphasize warm staff and individualized attention.
15. MyLivingChoice currently gives it 4.5/5 from 33 reviews.
16. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — South Tulsa
17. 5.0/5, 8 Google reviews
18. Small, residential-style setting with memory care.
19. Families particularly praise compassion, cleanliness, security, and staff attentiveness.
20. The 5.0 rating is impressive but based on a relatively small sample, so I'd tour it rather than rank it above the larger-sample options solely on rating. MyLivingChoice likewise lists it at 5.0/5 from 8 reviews.
21. Iris Memory Care of Tulsa — South Tulsa
22. 4.3/5, 55 Google reviews
23. Dedicated memory-care community, including respite stays.
24. Larger review sample makes the rating more informative than some of the 5-star communities with only a handful of reviews.
25. The Grove at Midtown — Midtown Tulsa
26. 4.3/5, 55 Google reviews
27. Offers assisted living and memory care.
28. Caring.com currently shows 4.6/5 from 13 reviews, although some reviews raise concerns about how certain medical/daily-care issues were handled, so I'd ask detailed questions during a tour.

One I'd evaluate separately: Montereau

Montereau is a major Tulsa Life Plan/CCRC with a dedicated secured memory-support neighborhood, The Abbey, and a full continuum through skilled nursing. Its memory-care setup and amenities are impressive, but its reviews are considerably more mixed: Caring.com shows 4.1/5 across 18 reviews, and recent reviews include serious complaints about aspects of care and admissions.

If this were my family

I'd tour these four first:

• Stonehaven — best overall balance of rating, review volume, and memory-care specialization.
• Legend at Tulsa Hills — particularly worth seeing for its dementia-care program.
• Oxford Springs — strong dedicated-memory-care alternative.
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — worth touring if you prefer a smaller, more home-like environment.

One important caveat: Google/A Place for Mom ratings aren't enough to judge dementia care. Staffing on nights/weekends, turnover, fall/elopement prevention, medication management, ability to handle behavioral changes, and what happens when dementia progresses are much more consequential.

If you'd like, I can also make you a side-by-side comparison of the top 5 with current monthly prices, room types, staffing/care levels, CMS/state inspection information, and pros/cons from recent family reviews.

Places ChatGPT showed

• Legend at Tulsa Hills · 4.6★ · Assisted living facility
• Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care · 4.6★ · Retirement community
• Iris Memory Care of Tulsa · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care · 4.8★ · Assisted living facility
• Chapters Living of Tulsa · 4.5★ · Assisted living facility
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa · 5.0★ · Assisted living facility
• Brookdale Broken Arrow · 4.4★ · Assisted living facility

If I were helping a family narrow the Tulsa market to a short list of communities worth touring first, I’d start with Legend at Tulsa Hills, Oxford Springs, Iris Memory Care, The Stonehaven, and Chapters Living. I’d also consider BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa if you prefer a smaller, more home-like setting.

Tulsa has a fairly broad selection: one current comparison identifies 11 dedicated memory-care communities, with an average rating around 4.4/5 across 424 public reviews.

My Tulsa-area short list

1\. Legend at Tulsa Hills — Best overall starting point

★ 4.6 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Legend%20at%20Tulsa%20Hills%2C701%20West%2071st%20St%20S%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074132%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://legendseniorliving.com/find-a-community/oklahoma/legend-at-tulsa-hills/?utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GoogleMyBusiness&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-338-6788)

701 W 71st St S, Tulsa

This would be one of my first tours. It has a strong combination of memory-care specialization, dementia-trained staff, activities, physical environment, and a relatively large body of family feedback. Current public reviews are strong, and the community specifically describes 24-hour specialized dementia care, licensed nurses on-site, individualized activities and therapies, and a person-centered "Best Friends" dementia-care approach.

The community currently lists memory care starting around $8,030/month, although the actual price can vary considerably with room and care needs.

Best for: Someone who needs fairly comprehensive dementia support and whose family wants an established, professionally structured program.

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2\. Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care — Best dedicated-memory-care option

★ 4.6 · Retirement community · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Oxford%20Springs%20Tulsa%20Memory%20Care%2C6022%20E%2071st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074136%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://oxfordseniorliving.com/senior-living/ok/tulsa/e-71st-st/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-221-8894)

6022 E 71st St, Tulsa

Oxford Springs is particularly worth considering because it is focused specifically on memory care, rather than being primarily assisted living with a memory-care wing. Current reviews describe warm, personalized care and staff who allow residents to participate at their own pace.

It has a current Google/business rating around 4.6/5 from 32 reviews, and the broader Tulsa comparison gives it about 4.5/5 from 33 reviews.

Best for: A person whose dementia is the central reason for moving and who may benefit from a dedicated memory-care environment.

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3\. Iris Memory Care of Tulsa — Best smaller specialized option

★ 4.3 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Iris%20Memory%20Care%20of%20Tulsa%2C9494%20E%20101st%20St%20S%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://www.irisseniorliving.com/tulsa/?utm_campaign=gmb&utm_medium=mainlink&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-398-4204)

9494 E 101st St S, Tulsa

Iris is another community I'd put high on the tour list. It is specifically focused on Alzheimer's and dementia care and offers both long-term and respite stays. It has about 4.3/5 from 55 Google reviews and 4.4/5 from 56 reviews in another current compilation.

Its size is also worth noting: it's listed as licensed for 57 residents, which may appeal to families looking for something less sprawling than a large senior-living campus.

Best for: Families looking for a more intimate, memory-care-centered community.

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4\. The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care — Very good on paper, but I'd investigate staffing carefully

★ 4.8 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=The%20Stonehaven%20Assisted%20Living%20and%20Memory%20Care%2C10802%20E%2081st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://legendseniorliving.com/find-a-community/oklahoma/the-stonehaven/?utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GoogleMyBusiness&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-917-2031)

10802 E 81st St, Tulsa

Stonehaven has some of the strongest aggregate ratings in Tulsa—roughly 4.7/5 across 39 reviews in one current comparison—and the community offers both assisted living and memory care.

Its current memory-care program advertises 24-hour specialized care, licensed nurses on-site, individualized activities and the same Best Friends dementia-care philosophy used by Legend. Memory care currently starts around $7,780/month.

However: I would specifically investigate staff turnover and consistency of care here. The overall ratings are good, but there is also a detailed recent negative family review alleging serious problems with staffing, communication and activities. That's only one family's experience, not proof of a systemic problem—but it's significant enough that I'd ask pointed questions during the tour.

Best for: A family that likes the physical community and wants assisted living and memory care on the same campus, but is willing to do extra due diligence.

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5\. Chapters Living of Tulsa — Worth touring for a smaller, memory-care-focused environment

★ 4.5 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Chapters%20Living%20of%20Tulsa%2C7807%20S%20Mingo%20Rd%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://chapterstulsa.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-262-5007)

7807 S Mingo Rd, Tulsa

Chapters is specifically marketed as a memory-care community, rather than a general senior-living facility that happens to offer memory care. Current local ratings are around 4.5/5, although the number of reviews is much smaller than for Legend, Iris or Stonehaven.

I'd put it on the tour list precisely because the smaller review sample means you need to see it yourself rather than relying heavily on online ratings.

Best for: Families prioritizing a smaller community and a dementia-focused environment.

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6\. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — Best small/home-like alternative

★ 5.0 · Assisted living facility

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=BeeHive%20Homes%20of%20South%20Tulsa%2C10201%20S%20Yale%20Ave%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074137%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://beehivehomes.com/locations/tulsa?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-505-2717)

10201 S Yale Ave, Tulsa

BeeHive is quite different from the larger communities. It's a small residential-style setting with memory-care support, and current public reviews are exceptionally positive—but there are only eight reviews, so I'd give the rating less weight statistically.

Best for: Someone who would do better in a smaller, quieter, more home-like environment than in a large senior-living building.

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One important option just outside Tulsa

If you're willing to drive into Broken Arrow, I'd also tour Brookdale Broken Arrow and Prairie House. Prairie House in particular uses the same person-centered/Best Friends dementia-care philosophy found in several of the Legend communities.

How I'd narrow it down

Priority	I'd tour first
Best overall	Legend at Tulsa Hills
Dedicated memory care	Oxford Springs
Smaller specialized community	Iris Memory Care
Assisted living → memory care progression	Stonehaven
Small/home-like setting	BeeHive South Tulsa
Another dedicated option	Chapters Living

One thing I would not do

I wouldn't choose solely based on Google stars or a beautiful tour. In memory care, staffing stability and the quality of care on an ordinary Tuesday evening matter much more than the lobby.

Oklahoma's Department of Health conducts licensing surveys and complaint investigations of long-term-care facilities, and it specifically regulates specialized Alzheimer's/dementia-care providers.

When you tour, I'd ask:

• What is your current caregiver-to-resident ratio on day and night shifts?
• How many caregivers have been here for more than a year?
• What happens when someone starts wandering or becomes agitated at night?
• Can you handle incontinence, transfers, falls and medication management?
• What behaviors or medical needs would cause you to discharge someone?
• How often does a nurse actually see residents?
• What percentage of activities are genuinely adapted for moderate/advanced dementia?
• What happens if my loved one needs more care six months from now?
• Can I see the most recent state inspection/complaint history?
• What is the all-in monthly cost, including care-level increases, medication management, incontinence care and other add-ons?

I'd also visit once during the daytime and once around dinner/evening, when staffing and resident behavior can look very different.

If you tell me the person's approximate dementia stage, whether they wander, mobility level, monthly budget, and whether you're looking in Tulsa proper vs. Broken Arrow/Jenks/Bixby, I can narrow these to the 3 best fits and compare them side-by-side on cost, care, staffing, reviews, and inspection history.

Places ChatGPT showed

• The Grove at Midtown · 4.3★ · Assisted living facility
• Saint Simeon's Senior Community · 4.1★ · Assisted living facility
• BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa · 5.0★ · Assisted living facility
• Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care · 4.6★ · Retirement community
• Legend at Tulsa Hills · 4.6★ · Assisted living facility

Yes. Based on current Tulsa pricing data, resident/family reviews, and available state oversight information, I’d focus on value rather than simply the lowest sticker price.

Tulsa memory care is running roughly $4,600–$6,400/month, depending heavily on room type and how much care is included. One current dataset puts the Tulsa typical monthly figure at $4,636, while A Place for Mom reports a higher $6,431 median. Published “starting prices” are not directly comparable because communities package care and fees differently.

My best-value shortlist

Community	Published price\*	Care/value impression	My take
The Grove at Midtown	~$2,415–$5,775	4.4/5 across 155 reviews; compassionate staff frequently praised	Best overall value
Bellarose Senior Living	~$3,100–$4,600	4.2/5 across 202 reviews; caring staff and attractive setting	Best lower-cost option
The Courtyards at The Ambassador	~$3,200–$3,700	4.1/5 across 37 reviews; friendly staff, activities, dining	Worth touring for budget
Saint Simeon's	~$3,651–$5,950	Established nonprofit/continuing-care campus; specialized memory care	Best stability/value combination
Legend at Mingo Road	~$4,765–$6,585	Strong reviews for compassionate staff, activities and dining	Best if care needs are higher
Iris Memory Care Tulsa	~$6,250 reported	Dedicated memory-care operation; 4.3/5 locally	Good care focus, but not especially cheap

\*These are published/aggregated starting or estimated ranges, not guaranteed quotes. Actual memory-care bills can change substantially with care level, medication management, incontinence assistance, room choice, and one-time fees.

1\. The Grove at Midtown — my first call

★ 4.3 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=The%20Grove%20at%20Midtown%2C5211%20S%20Lewis%20Ave%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074105%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://compass-living.com/community/the-grove-at-midtown/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-505-9516)

This is probably where I'd start if cost matters but you don't want to sacrifice care.

It has a relatively broad published range ($2,415–$5,775), a 4.4/5 rating from 155 reviews, and recurring praise for compassionate, attentive staff. It provides 24/7 memory-care support and structured routines.

Caution: reviews also raise concerns about food quality and medication administration. That's significant enough that I'd specifically ask to see the medication-management process during a tour.

2\. Saint Simeon's Senior Community — strong “don't cut corners” candidate

★ 4.1 · Assisted living facility · Closed

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Saint%20Simeon%27s%20Senior%20Community%2C3701%20M.L.K.%20Jr%20Blvd%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074106%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://saintsimeons.org/senior-care-services/assisted-living/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-425-3583)

Saint Simeon's is particularly interesting because it's a nonprofit continuing-care community, with assisted living, memory care, long-term nursing care and rehabilitation on one campus. That can be valuable when dementia progresses and needs become more complex.

The reported range of roughly $3,651–$5,950 makes it competitive with Tulsa's overall market.

I'd put this high on the tour list if you're thinking 5+ years rather than just today's price.

3\. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — worth investigating despite limited data

★ 5.0 · Assisted living facility

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=BeeHive%20Homes%20of%20South%20Tulsa%2C10201%20S%20Yale%20Ave%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074137%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://beehivehomes.com/locations/tulsa?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-505-2717)

This is a smaller, residential-style community with memory care and a secure environment. The available family feedback is exceptionally positive—5.0/5, although based on only eight reviews—particularly around staff warmth, patience and leadership visibility.

The problem is pricing isn't sufficiently transparent publicly, so I wouldn't call it “affordable” until you get an all-in quote.

4\. Oxford Springs Tulsa Memory Care — good care-focused alternative

★ 4.6 · Retirement community · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Oxford%20Springs%20Tulsa%20Memory%20Care%2C6022%20E%2071st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074136%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://oxfordseniorliving.com/senior-living/ok/tulsa/e-71st-st/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-221-8894)

This is a dedicated memory-care community rather than a general assisted-living facility that happens to have memory care. It currently has a 4.5/5 family rating from 33 reviews, with staff warmth being a recurring positive.

I'd compare its all-in monthly quote against Grove and Saint Simeon's rather than rejecting it because its advertised starting price isn't the lowest.

5\. Legend at Tulsa Hills — more expensive, but potentially better value for higher needs

★ 4.6 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Legend%20at%20Tulsa%20Hills%2C701%20West%2071st%20St%20S%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074132%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://legendseniorliving.com/find-a-community/oklahoma/legend-at-tulsa-hills/?utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GoogleMyBusiness&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-338-6788)

Legend at Tulsa Hills has a 4.6/5 rating from 54 reviews. Its memory-care program uses specialized dementia-trained associates and licensed nurses, with a person-centered/“Best Friends” approach.

The downside is cost: published estimates put it around $4,680–$7,245, so I'd choose it when the quality of care makes the additional expense worthwhile—not because it's cheap.

One I would investigate very carefully

The Courtyards at The Ambassador looks extremely attractive on price—roughly $3,200–$3,700 in one current dataset—and has generally positive comments about staff, dining and activities.

However, another current Tulsa directory gives it only 3.4/5 across nine reviews, so the evidence is less consistent than for Grove, Saint Simeon's or Legend.

I'd tour it, but I wouldn't choose it solely because it's inexpensive.

A potentially overlooked option: Zarrow Pointe

Zarrow Pointe is another one I'd get a quote from. Current published estimates put it around $3,195–$4,365, making it potentially one of the better price points in Tulsa.

It's also a state-licensed continuum-of-care facility; Oklahoma's 2025 facility directory lists Zarrow Pointe with 61 licensed beds.

My ranking for a family on a budget

If this were my shortlist, I'd call these five first, in this order:

1. The Grove at Midtown — best combination of price + substantial review history.
2. Saint Simeon's — particularly compelling for long-term stability and escalating care needs.
3. Zarrow Pointe — potentially excellent price/value; get the actual memory-care quote.
4. Bellarose Senior Living — attractive lower-cost possibility, but investigate staffing/fees carefully.
5. Legend at Tulsa Hills — spend more if the resident needs a stronger specialized-care environment.

One important caveat: Oklahoma requires special-care disclosure information from facilities that advertise Alzheimer's/dementia care, and the Oklahoma State Department of Health conducts licensing/complaint inspections. I would review those records before putting down a deposit—not rely on Google ratings alone.

The question that will save you the most money

When you call each community, don't ask “What does memory care cost?” Ask:

> “What would my mother's/husband's total monthly bill be if they need medication management, assistance with bathing/dressing, incontinence care, nighttime supervision, and transportation—and what additional charges could appear later?”

That's because a $3,500 community can become more expensive than a $4,500 community once care add-ons are applied.

If you tell me the person's approximate monthly budget (e.g. $4,000, $5,000, $6,000), whether they need help with bathing/toileting/medications, and whether Medicaid or VA benefits are involved, I can narrow this to the 3 Tulsa communities I'd actually tour first and compare their likely all-in costs.

Worked for 9s

1. Searching the web
2. I’ll compare locally/family-owned options using current ownership information, family-review signals, and Oklahoma regulatory or quality data where available.
3. Searching the web
4. Searching the web
5. Searched 20 websites

Map data is currently unavailable BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa 5.0Assisted living facility The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care 4.8Assisted living facilityOpen Chapters Living of Tulsa 4.5Assisted living facilityOpen The Courtyards at The Ambassador Memory Care Assisted Living 3.4Assisted living facilityOpen Mercy Springs Living Center 4.8Assisted living facilityOpen The Parke Assisted Living 4.9Assisted living facilityOpen

Yes. I found a short list of genuinely family-owned, locally owned, or independently owned communities in the Tulsa area that are worth putting on your tour list. I’d distinguish ownership from reputation, though: being locally owned does not automatically mean better care, so I weighted recent family feedback and available state/regulatory information too.

My strongest candidates

1\. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — South Tulsa

★ 5.0 · Assisted living facility

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=BeeHive%20Homes%20of%20South%20Tulsa%2C10201%20S%20Yale%20Ave%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074137%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://beehivehomes.com/locations/tulsa?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-505-2717)

Best fit if you want a small, home-like memory-care setting.

• About 30 residents, substantially smaller than many Tulsa communities.
• Offers dedicated memory care as well as assisted living and respite care.
• Current public review information is unusually positive: 5.0/5 from 8 Google reviews in the Tulsa memory-care comparison I found.
• Most importantly, the Oklahoma data I found shows no reported deficiencies for the South Tulsa location in the available records.
• The local administrator/ownership connection appears to be through Lisa Meacham, who is also associated with the Tulsa-area BeeHive locations.

Why I'd tour it: Small size can make it easier for staff to know residents personally, which is particularly valuable in dementia care.

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2\. The Stonehaven Assisted Living and Memory Care — South Tulsa

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★ 4.8 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=The%20Stonehaven%20Assisted%20Living%20and%20Memory%20Care%2C10802%20E%2081st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://legendseniorliving.com/find-a-community/oklahoma/the-stonehaven/?utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GoogleMyBusiness&utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-917-2031)

Best choice if you specifically want a family-owned company behind a larger community.

Stonehaven is operated by Legend Senior Living, which describes itself as a family-owned senior living company with more than 25 years of experience.

Families rate Stonehaven particularly well: the current Tulsa comparison gives it 4.7/5 from 39 reviews, with families repeatedly describing attentive care, good communication and a close-knit atmosphere.

The tradeoff is that it isn't a tiny independent operation—the company is family-owned, but the Tulsa community is a fairly substantial operation.

Why I'd tour it: Probably the strongest combination I found of family ownership + substantial review volume + strong family sentiment.

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3\. Chapters Living of Tulsa — South Tulsa

★ 4.5 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Chapters%20Living%20of%20Tulsa%2C7807%20S%20Mingo%20Rd%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074133%2C%20United%20States) [Website](https://chapterstulsa.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-262-5007)

Worth a serious look, but I'd ask more questions about the recent management transition.

Chapters specializes in memory care and describes its program as a secure, residential setting with personalized support and trained caregivers.

The interesting part is the very recent family feedback:

• A number of families describe staff as caring, responsive and attentive.
• One June 2026 family review praised the smaller size and caring floor staff.
• Another family said their loved one was very happy there.
• But an August 2026 verified review was very negative, specifically citing problems with the current administration, resident care and activities.

So I would not put Chapters in the "blindly recommend" category. I'd tour it and talk specifically to current families and the executive director.

Why I'd tour it: There are enough positive recent experiences to warrant consideration, but the conflicting reviews make an in-person visit especially important.

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4\. The Courtyards at The Ambassador — Central/South Tulsa

★ 3.4 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=The%20Courtyards%20at%20The%20Ambassador%2C1380%20E%2061st%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074136%2C%20United%20States) [Website](http://al.ambassadorok.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-743-7887)

Interesting if employee ownership matters to you.

This one is different: it says it is 100% employee-owned through an ESOP, and its website says each center is independently owned and operated.

The family-review evidence is quite encouraging. A verified family member reported that her husband had been there nearly two years and said the employee-owned model was producing excellent results; another family praised the cleanliness, food, activities and care.

It also has a small memory-care population, which may appeal to families wanting a less institutional setting.

Why I'd tour it: Employee ownership is a meaningful distinction, and the family feedback I found is stronger than its relatively modest online rating might suggest.

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5\. Mercy Springs Living Center — East Tulsa

★ 4.8 · Assisted living facility · Open

[Directions](https://www.google.com/maps/dir/?api=1&destination=Mercy%20Springs%20Living%20Center%2C7916%20E%2055th%20St%2C%20Tulsa%2C%20OK%2074145%2C%20United%20States) [Website](http://www.mercyspringslivingcenter.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com) [Call](tel:+1 918-281-9256)

One of the most genuinely local options I found.

This is particularly interesting from an ownership standpoint. Oklahoma's April 2026 ownership records identify Kara M. Copes as the 100% owner of the operating entity, with a Broken Arrow address.

The community describes itself as a family-style home rather than an institution, founded by a nurse who wanted to provide more personal, attentive care.

Reviews emphasize staff genuinely caring for residents, keeping them clean and engaged, and encouraging family involvement.

One caveat: I'd verify directly that the resident's current level of dementia/memory-care needs is within what Mercy Springs can safely handle. Its positioning is more family-style assisted living than a large dedicated memory-care campus.

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One important distinction

I would not count The Parke Assisted Living as a memory-care recommendation even though it is probably the clearest example of locally/family-owned Tulsa senior living.

The Parke is owned by lifelong Tulsans and has an excellent reputation—its current public rating is around 4.9/5 with 140+ reviews, and independent data identifies it as an independently family-owned, single-site community.

But it is assisted living, not a dedicated memory-care community, so I wouldn't choose it for someone who needs secured dementia care.

How I'd prioritize the tours

If this were my family member, I'd start with:

1. BeeHive Homes of South Tulsa — small and home-like; particularly compelling regulatory/review signals.
2. Stonehaven — strongest overall combination of family ownership and substantial positive family feedback.
3. Courtyards at The Ambassador — especially interesting because of employee ownership and positive family experiences.
4. Mercy Springs — genuinely local ownership and very personal scale; verify dementia-care capabilities.
5. Chapters Living — worth touring, but I'd investigate the conflicting 2026 family reports carefully.

Tulsa's memory-care market overall has fairly good family sentiment—one current compilation puts the average at 4.4/5 across 424 public reviews—but staffing, communication and billing are recurring concerns across communities.

One caution: I would put much more weight on what you observe during an unannounced or late-afternoon visit than on a polished tour. Ask to see the memory-care neighborhood, medication procedures, staffing assignment for the specific shift, and how they handle residents who wander, become combative, fall, or need help toileting.

If you'd like, I can also make you a Tulsa memory-care comparison table of 8–10 communities, including ownership, monthly cost, number of residents, family-review scores, staffing/inspection concerns, Medicaid/VA options, and my overall ranking.